Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Where Does Integrity Fall In Our Lives?

People never cease to amaze me.  I learn so much about a person and their character when I observe how they treat others during difficult situations.  I am however, trying to wrap my mind around recent conversations from someone in my circle of friends who was cheating with a married man. 

First of all, do not think for a minute that I want to hear about your sexual romps with a married man without giving you a piece of my mind. My ex-husband cheated on me, I know the heartache it brought and to think there are women and men who find satisfaction in inflicting pain to innocent people disturbs me deeply. 

As a woman who does not search for tainted friendships, I do occasionally find myself in the company of some who do, I want to say, "where is your integrity" when the words coming from their mouth begin describing a tainted affair that I have no interest in?  

I wont hesitate for a minute to tell you how I feel about your infidelity when your're in my circle of friends.  I am not going to find satisfaction or pleasure in your trash can at the expense of another woman's pain.
Call me old-fashioned, but I still believe in man and woman, for better for worst, till death do us part; I just wish the rest of the world did too......
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